Thirteen steps, from asking for an evaluation to the last day of school. What should happen, what to bring, what to ask, and the red flags.
The whole path at a glance
Special education follows the same federal steps in every state, from the first worry to the last day of school. Each step below says what should happen, what to bring, what to ask, and the red flags to watch for.
About this guide: Checked line by line against the federal regulations (34 CFR Parts 300 and 104, eCFR text as of 29 Oct 2026) on 2 Nov 2026. A second review by someone with special education law training is still to come. This is general information, not legal advice. Your state may add rules.
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Step 1: Child Find and referral
What should happen
Every state must find, locate, and evaluate children with disabilities who may need special education. This is called Child Find.
Child Find covers children in public school, private school, children who are homeless, and wards of the state.
It also covers children who are passing from grade to grade. A child does not have to fail first.
Children leaving early intervention (Part C) should have an IEPIndividualized Education Program: a written plan for a child's special education services at school. or IFSP in place by their third birthday.
What to bring
Notes on what you see at home: dates, examples, and how long it has been going on.
Report cards, test scores, and notes from teachers.
Any reports from doctors or therapists.
What to ask
Who is the Child Find contact for our school or district?
What happens next after I share my concerns, and when?
Red flags
You are told your child is 'too young' or 'doing fine' without any look at the data.
You are told a private school child cannot be part of Child Find.
You can ask for an evaluation at any time. The school can also ask.
Put your request in writing. Date it and keep a copy.
The school must give you a written notice about what it will do or refuse to do. It must also give you a copy of your procedural safeguards (your rights) when you first ask.
A school process like RTI or MTSS cannot be used to delay or deny an evaluation.
What to bring
A short letter or email: 'I am asking for a full and individual evaluation for special education for my child, [name], because [reasons].'
Copies of anything that shows your concerns.
What to ask
When will I get the consent form?
If you will not evaluate, will you give me that in a prior written notice with your reasons?
Red flags
Being told to wait until RTI or MTSS is finished.
Being told only a teacher can ask for an evaluation.
Under federal rules, the evaluation must be done within 60 days after you give consent, unless your state sets its own timeline. Your state may add rules.
The school must use more than one test or tool. No single test can decide eligibility.
Your child must be tested in all areas tied to the suspected disability. This can include health, vision, hearing, behavior, thinking, school skills, communication, and motor skills.
Tests must be given in your child's language or way of communicating, and must not be biased.
Information you give must be part of the evaluation.
What to bring
Private evaluations or medical reports, if you have them.
A one page summary of your child's strengths and struggles.
What to ask
What is the date the evaluation will be finished?
Can I get a copy of the report before the eligibility meeting?
Red flags
The timeline passes with no meeting.
Only an IQ test or one test is used.
An area you raised (such as reading, behavior, or speech) is left out.
Federal rule: 60 days from consent, unless your state sets its own. See your state.
The first IEP meeting must happen within 30 days after your child is found to need special education.
The school must invite you early enough to attend, at a time and place you both agree on. The notice says who will be there.
The team must include you, a general education teacher, a special education teacher, a district representative, and someone who can explain the test results. You may bring others who know your child.
The IEP must include present levels, measurable annual goals, how progress will be measured, the services and supports, and when, where, and how often services happen.
The team must think about your child's strengths and your concerns. It must also think about behavior supports, language needs, Braille, communication, and assistive technology when they apply.
You get a free copy of the IEP.
What to bring
Your written 'parent concerns' statement.
Your child's strengths and interests.
A support person, advocate, or someone who knows your child.
What to ask
How will you measure each goal, and how often will I get a report?
How many minutes of each service, and who provides it?
Is anything in this IEP limited because of staff or cost?
Red flags
A finished IEP is handed to you and the team will not change anything.
Goals that cannot be measured, such as 'will improve reading.'
Step 7: Placement and least restrictive environment (LRE)
What should happen
Placement means where and how your child gets services. It is decided by a group that includes you.
Placement is based on the IEP, reviewed at least once a year, and as close to home as possible.
Your child should learn with children who do not have disabilities as much as is appropriate. Removal from regular class happens only when supports and services in regular class cannot work well.
Your child should attend the school they would go to if they did not have a disability, unless the IEP needs something else.
Schools must have a range of options, from regular class with supports to special classes, special schools, home, or hospital instruction.
What to bring
Your view on what supports would help your child in a regular class.
What to ask
What supports did you try or consider in the regular class?
Why were other options rejected? Please put that in the prior written notice.
Red flags
Placement is decided before the IEP is written.
Placement is based on which classroom has an open seat.
You are told a child must leave regular class only because the work needs to be changed.
By the first IEP in effect when your child turns 16, the IEP must include goals for life after high school. These cover training, education, jobs, and, if needed, independent living.
Goals must be based on age appropriate transition assessments and updated every year.
The IEP must list transition services, including courses of study.
The school must invite your child to the meeting. With your consent, it must invite agencies that may provide or pay for transition services, such as vocational rehabilitationA state agency that helps people with disabilities get ready for work, find a job, and keep it. Often called VR..
Many states start transition planning earlier than 16. Your state may add rules.
What to bring
Your child's own ideas about work, school, and where they want to live.
Your questions about adult services in your state.
What to ask
Which transition assessments did you use?
Which outside agencies will you invite?
Red flags
A transition plan with no measurable goals.
Your child is not invited.
Transition planning starts in the last year of school.
Your state may move IDEA rights from parent to student when the student reaches the age of majority under state law (often 18). Your state may add rules.
At least one year before that age, the IEP must say your child has been told which rights will transfer.
If rights transfer, the school must notify both you and your child.
States must have a way to appoint a parent or other person to represent a student who cannot give informed consent, if state law allows that finding.
What to bring
Questions about supported decision making, power of attorney, or guardianship options in your state.
What to ask
What is the age of majority here, and what rights transfer?
How can my child invite me to keep coming to meetings?
Red flags
No one tells your child about the transfer before it happens.
Step 13: Leaving school and the Summary of Performance
What should happen
FAPE ends when your child graduates with a regular high school diploma, or ages out under state law. In most states services can continue through age 21. Your state may add rules.
A certificate or a diploma that is not a regular diploma does not end the right to FAPE.
Graduation with a regular diploma is a change in placement, so the school must give you prior written notice.
When eligibility ends this way, the school must give your child a Summary of Performance. It describes school and daily living skills and gives advice for reaching goals after school.
What to bring
Your child's transition plan and a list of adult agencies you have contacted.
What to ask
Is this a regular diploma or something else?
When will we get the Summary of Performance?
Red flags
You are told services end at 18 when your child has not earned a regular diploma.
Schools mostly want to help, but mistakes happen. If what you hear does not match the steps above, read Does this sound right? and call your free parent center.
If your child does not need special education but still needs help at school, read the 504 path.
Last reviewed: November 2026. Rules, programs and phone numbers change. Check with the office named on this page. Report outdated or wrong information.